Eveleen
Chung
College!
3/25/2014
Rough Draft
Homosexuals in fraternities, though not
common, are slowly rising in number and support. Some fraternities were even
known to be particularly accepting of gays. One openly homosexual male
described his fellow brothers’ attitude about his sexuality: “The thing that
was the best…I knew going into it they weren’t going to have an issue, and that
was helpful” (Hussey, Heather D.,
and Toni L. Bisconti). Though not the case for all fraternities or even
the majority of them, it is still comforting to know that there are parts of
Greek life who’re embracing differences in sexuality. Alas, that positive
attitude doesn’t seem to carry over to homosexual women in sororities. In
comparison to male homosexuals, lesbians in sororities suffer more open
hostility and negative stereotypes. As a result, they have a more diminished presence
on campus. One Greek-affiliated male from a small, private Midwestern university
with an active LGBTQ community confessed, “When [the interviewer] mentioned it,
I don’t know a single girl in any house that [is homosexual.]”A girl from the
same university stated that her housemates’ attitudes and snide comments about
other lesbians put off her coming-out until her senior year (Hussey 129). Why
would lesbians have a more negative reaction in Greek life than a gay male?
Part of this difference in treatment lies in the dominant perception of women,
specifically sorority women. Even for heterosexual, white girls with blonde
hair and good looks, the rushing process is incredibly intimidating. Mara, a
pledge for a top tier sorority in her school, described the peer dynamics of
the house as “heavily… based on appearance, and looks, and materialistic things”
(Armstrong). The other part lies in lack of media attention. Both parts tie
into the fact that while “gays” are more “mainstream” than are either lesbians
or women bisexuals.